How to forget when i forgive

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Permalink Reply by SHYLEEJAN on February 24, 2011 at 10:54am

Thank u for ur respond ,i am sorry to hear about ur son. i lost my son when he was just (8)so i know how u feel. I dont believe u shold blame any one or most of all ur self for his death,he was old enough to know what was what.

Permalink Reply by SHYLEEJAN on February 24, 2011 at 11:07am

Ithank u for ur respond, and i am going to do what u say.

Permalink Reply by SHYLEEJAN on March 1, 2011 at 10:15am

When i was 13 or 14 years old two family members had sex with me,on different times,i have never told anyone until my husband die i told my smaller sister,and told her not to say anything ,now i am telling this site. i still cant forget it i forgive them,should i talk to them about it ,i have alot of things inside me that i would love to forget.

Permalink Reply by SHYLEEJAN on March 1, 2011 at 2:26pm

Thank u for ur words,its good to know someone understand.for me to say something it would cause so much problem because the family members was my _a_h_ _ and my _ _o _ h _ r he use to drink alot but now he stop drinking,at times i use to hint him and say he use to be so wicked to me but he always say him never do me nothing,i dont want to mash up my family but i realy want to forget

Permalink Reply by Ruel Z Chavez on May 25, 2011 at 4:18am

I realized just now that there are many people here in AAG who are suffering. It is comforting to know that I am not alone and there is nothing I can do but to accept it as part of life.