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What is God telling me?
My husband and I have been seperated for about three months. I love my husband, but I am young. I know I made mistakes. I know I took his love for granted and I thought it would be there forever. Then one day I discovered he was having an affair. My life seems such a mess right now. I know I never had an affiar, but maybe by me not bing there for him I pushed him to it. I confessed my sins to God and my husband. I told both of them that I wanted this marriage and I would remain a faithful wife. I read every book, prayed, did devotions, did charity work, got help for my depression and still he is not home. When small battles are won I praise God and when times are harder I pray harder. I am not sure what God is telling me to do. I do want this marriage, but my husband says he does not know what he wants. Sometimes he is so sweet calls and checks on me or comes by. Then breaks promises and continues to have affairs. My husband says that by me being hurt it takes a toll on him. Then he post pictures on the internet of him and the girl. Does God really want my marriage to be restored? I cry everyday and sometimes it is hard to come to a house all alone. Do I move on? How much can I endure?
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Permalink Reply by Stacia Baker on
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I think this song will help you just listen to the words of it! I can not tell you what to do but I like to make this song my prayer... and i dont know maybe it will help you
www.youtube.com/watch?v=1IVSyVDy1w8
Let me know what you think about it ... it is so powerful!
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Permalink Reply by Mayra Vasquez on
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Hi Stephanie,
I know exactly what you are going through. but mine is alil diffferent after 7 years I am finally saved let the Lord come into my heart. And he has come to me with a message to work on reconciling my marraige. my husband is dating another woman and it seems as he has moved on, but the messages I am receiving are to continue my faith and prayers and try and reconcile my marriage. It is very hard but I am faithful and strong and will continue to obey God. I believe he is working within me to prepare me for what he wants me to do with my life and marraige, etc. So I tell you to stand strong on your faith in the Lord, do not question him just obey and continue your fellowship to the Lord and continue to grow closer and closer to Him. At the end He will answer and let you know what He really wants and what will be the end result. God Bless you Amen.
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Permalink Reply by prince mupenzi on
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fear not child coz the lord is pleased with your marriage , don't u know of what is written , and the two shall become one
there is time for everything thing look at JOB even his wife dared to ask him curse GOD but he didnt so dont give up remain in prayers abd the GOD lord who loves u will surely save u , just a little while he will amen
GOD bless u all and make ur marriage holy and pleasing to HIM
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Permalink Reply by Jacob Hill on
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Do not give up hope, follow in obedience to scripture. Yes it says that due to the hardness of our hearts there is the option of divorce due to adultery (fornication), but that is not how God truly designed it. Marriage is a lifelong commitment. I know that it is hard to be in the position that your in, my wife has been gone for 2 months, and i have no idea where she is. But i know that if i am faithful and obedient to the Lord he will be with her. After all if we can trust him with our lives, trust him with theirs. Because two have become one, your hearts will be drawn back together. But when he comes back you have to be there, ready to reconcile and forgive. How can we not forgive and yet expect God to forgive us? It is a hard and difficult road, but take comfort in the Lord that he will be with you through this the whole way. "The lips of an adulteress drip honey, and smoother than oil is her speech; But in the end she is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword. Her feet go down to death....she does not ponder the path of life; her ways are unstable, ahe does not know it" Prov 5:3-6, when reality comes crashing down on him, be right with the Lord, so that you can be the contrast of light to the darkness.
Recommended reading, "Love Life for every married couple, by Ed Wheat, M.D." and "Hope for the separated, by Gary Chapman." Stay strong, and listen to the Lord for guidance.
God Bless,
Jacob
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Permalink Reply by David Velasquez on
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Stephanie -
It's been a while since you posted this thread. How are things now?
Is your husband born again?
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