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Please pray for my husband!!!!
I am married for 5 years and my husband just told me the first week of January that he loved me to death as the mother of his kids but not in love with me. I felt like a knife just ripped through my heart. We had so much going on when we got married that I do acknowledge that we forgot about ourselves. I was already pregnant when we got married (we planned the baby before the marriage) then a year after that we had anotehr baby, bought a home, finances, husband bad luck with jobs, got laid off twice in one year to busy with kids we forgot about going out like a date night or things that we use to do before the kids were born. Husband and I rarely saw each other, I worked day time he workd night time. Now that he has been in this job for a year he feels that he is finally succeding and that his job is number 1, himself and the boys and I am not in the picture at all. We tried counseling but I stopped that I did not see that doing anything to us, I told my husband to move out, he did, his stuff still here but he does not sleep here. I ask god every day to please heal his heart and let him realize what he is doing to us, I am in so much pain that I decided to file for divorce he will be getting served next week. He wanted a legal separation but I rather just end it. If anyone has been going through what I am please pray for me and kids, so my husband can realize what he is doing, he is a different person, I feel like satan has taking over him. I know god is listening to me every day and I even feel his presence or when I am crying I know he is beside me. Thank you for your support.
Milena
Milena
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Permalink Reply by Ron Payne on
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Dear Milena,
Not knowing all the facts, I write this to you in Christian love.....
Are you not being hard on yourself and him?
You asked him to leave. He left.
You are filing for divorce. He may well agree.
You are asking God for help. Yet It does not seem as though you are giving God an opportunity to work in both your hearts.
Go and look in your husbands cupboard, his clothes are still there. Even though he does not realize it himself. It may be his way of keeping options open for both of you.
My prayer for you and the children is that you and your husband be reconciled.
Your Brother and Friend in Christ - Ron
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Permalink Reply by Milena on
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Dear Ron:
Thank you for your wonderful words and guess what you are making sense, I had so much anger about a month ago that is when I told him to just go and move to his friend's house and the reason for that was also because he was telling me also that he needed a break from me, so that is when I told him to go ahead and leave, plust I am not as stressed as I was, I do miss him but I cannot tell himi that I guess I have pride like he does also. He still comes home in the mornings to take the boys to school for me, when he is coming into the house I am already leaving to go to work so I only see him for 5 minutes, that is the break that he wanted so he got it. I filed for divorce because I said to him about two weeks ago, how is he feeling now that he has moved out from here for about a month and he again said that he feels less stressed and that is all about his job and himself, he knows is him being selfish but he does not care he is being honest to me. I asked to tell me if he wanted to just do the divorce and he said that he wants a legal separation to see where we are, what went wrong, reacess etc. all his answers got me so mad that I said to him that he just answered my question. so I told my attorney the next day to just get it filed. I have my ups and downs Ron, but I do know that god is watching me and he is still in control.
I thank you for your support.
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Permalink Reply by Sean on
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Im am praying for you and your family. I also beleive that God lets things happen for a reason and this right now may be a test. Even though its hard right now please know that everthing will happen the way God planned an in the end you will come out stronger than before.
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You are right I said the same thing, and I tell God are you testing us? This is our first bump in marriage, I hear all these stories and I do believe that god will help us through this marriage. But I also tell God to help my husband because he is not a believer about him so right now if you don't believe in the lord you are against him.
Thank you Sean and keep praying for us.
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Permalink Reply by Yoel charan on
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I am praying for you and for your husband so that Lord jesus may solve your problems. Please do not think about divorce. Divorce is not a solution for your problem. Joel
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I know he hates divorce, but when I don't see any hints from my husband that he wants to work on this marriage I feel so much hatred that I think of divorce would be the easier way for the both of us. I pray everynight to god and I cry to him and tell him to hear me out and to please help us. Thanks Joel.
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I think I am going to withdraw the divorce proceedings and let god do his work. Thanks Joel. I been getting hints and wake up calls from God that I should not do this.
God bless you!!!
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Good Morning Milena,
I am so glad to hear that you may not file for divorce.
If things still do not work out, you have lots and lots of time to do this, So take your time don't rush into it. Give your husband time to think it through for himself. He may well need time away from home, to simply go over his life .
Many, many husbands have dreams bigger than they are capable of accomplishing.
One day the moment of truth comes to them that their dreams are not going to
happen. We, husbands then tend to look around us and blame everything else for not
reaching our dreams. Many of us need a little time to come down to earth, look at what we
have accomplished and realise we have indeed accomplished more than we realized.
The Lord Comfort you and that pretty girl who has her arms around you.
Your Brother and friend in Christ Ron
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Good Morning Milena,
Just a short note to ask "How ya Doin?"
The Lord Bless you and your family including your husband.
Your Friend in Christ Ron.
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I am doing ok, I have my crying moments and when i do I grab the bible and start praying for him to take the pain away and it does work I have to say. Thank you Ron for thinking about my situation. My husband does need for god to work on him.
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Permalink Reply by Carla on
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Hello dear friend,
As i was thinking about how to respond to your post, i began to pray....you see, i am also having a hard time with my husband. I am a born again Christian who is on fire for Jesus...my husband is a non-believer who is a self proclaimed athiest! I feel the battling ground of spiritual warfare around but i know that God is holding me. I want to give you 2 things...scripture and a video...
Psalm 139
O LORD, you have examined my heart and know everything about me.
2 You know when I sit down or stand up. You know my every thought when far away.
3 You chart the path ahead of me and tell me where to stop and rest. Every moment you know where I am.
4 You know what I am going to say even before I say it, LORD.
5 You both precede and follow me. You place your hand of blessing on my head.
6 Such knowledge is too wonderful for me, too great for me to know!
7 I can never escape from your spirit! I can never get away from your presence!
8 If I go up to heaven, you are there; if I go down to the place of the dead,* you are there.1
9 If I ride the wings of the morning, if I dwell by the farthest oceans,
10 even there your hand will guide me, and your strength will support me.
11 I could ask the darkness to hide me and the light around me to become night--
12 but even in darkness I cannot hide from you. To you the night shines as bright as day. Darkness and light are both alike to you.
13 You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body and knit me together in my mother's womb.
14 Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex! Your workmanship is marvelous--and how well I know it.
15 You watched me as I was being formed in utter seclusion, as I was woven together in the dark of the womb.
16 You saw me before I was born. Every day of my life was recorded in your book. Every moment was laid out before a single day had passed.
17 How precious are your thoughts about me,* O God! They are innumerable!2
18 I can't even count them; they outnumber the grains of sand! And when I wake up in the morning, you are still with me!
19 O God, if only you would destroy the wicked! Get out of my life, you murderers!
20 They blaspheme you; your enemies take your name in vain.
21 O LORD, shouldn't I hate those who hate you? Shouldn't I despise those who resist you?
22 Yes, I hate them with complete hatred, for your enemies are my enemies.
23 Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my thoughts.
24 Point out anything in me that offends you, and lead me along the path of everlasting life.
God Bless you today and may you be rest assured He is holding you also!
Oh Lord! We cry out for your mercy...We cry out for your grace....We cry out set us free!
In Him! Carla
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