I just stumbled upon this site today and its been a tremendous blessing already.
There have been a lot of fights, feuds, a court case and bitterness in my family lately.Well, my mom is saved and my dad is not and this has not rlly been an issue all along.Recently, my dad and sister who is 16 were fighting seriously coz my dad accused my sister of lacking seriousness in school and life in general.My sister accused him of being mean until one day she had enough and ran away from home to a boyfriend.It was a very trying time for me but i thank God for giving me the strength to endure and be joyful.She came back home for a while and returned to the boyfriend after some time.The thing is at times fighting becomes difficult, especially bcoz my dad dsnt want my sis at home and me and mom r fighting for her return.Its a confused situation.Is there anyone out there who has gone thru this?I never imagined this would happen in my family.....
Permalink Reply by Lynz on November 4, 2008 at 5:22pm
Hey I am Lynz! I am not perfect in anykind of way! I am just learning how to live life! I am 17years old! I ran away from home to one of my boyfriends! I was 15 at the time! I ran away because I had so much going on and its like my mother didnt care! I had two of my best friends who were shot and killed at a graduation party! Bad thing about it was i was suppose to go but my mom told me no i couldnt go... So i plan to sneak out! I had got ready to go and all but I had fell asleep waiting on the person to pick me up! I am sad but glad! Glad that i fell alseep because it could have been me that was shot and killed over such none sense ya know! But then I am sad because I lost two of the most wonderful people in my life!! Back to what I was saying! I ran away because I had that on my mind and then I had went to a party with one oh my guy friends and that night was horrible as well he got beat in the head with a crow-bar and was in the hospital for some time! and I was having to go threw all this alone! I didnt think that my mother cared about me.. not only that but she has remarried! See I dont know my birth father never really met him but once and that was a crazy sitiuation! I was 8years old when I 1st saw him and that was the last.. so with everything going on I thought I didnt have anybody who cared about me so I ran away to my boyfriends house till I found out the truth!!! Just keep in contact with your sister! Its her life! let her learn.. if your or your mom try to hold her back she just going to keep pushing away! ANd she's not going to want to keep contact!!( you probably asking me why I am saying this!) I am telling you because I know 1st hand! I been there and done that! Now I am 17years old and I live out in the streets!! Its not easy out here! Just pray to the Lord and ask him to watch over you sister and to guide and to protect her!!! As the same for you your mother and your father! pray that the fight can come to an end... YOu and your mother both pray that the Lord will make his calling to you dad! It takes time! But take baby steps!! I am not sure if this helped you out in any sense I hope that it did and I hope that things work out for you!!
God Bless
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Love you always love Lynz
thanks a lot Lynz,this was really helpful and encouraging.i am glad God helped you out in yo time of need and confusion.I wl surely keep praying for my sister and my dad and i know that God will surely answer.Thanks again Lynz, may God watch over you daily and lead you to a place where you will call home.He is a faithful God and He has great plans for u(Jeremiah 29v10).God bless you