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The problum I had when my wife went to heaven

I didn't know what to do,where to go I was panickstrricken, and scared out of my mind. Now she is in heaven and I still have all this on my back,PLUS NO HELP FROM MY FAMILY What kind of help is out there Don Haines

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Permalink Reply by Amanda on August 12, 2017 at 5:48pm

Donald,
Yes, Dad passed in 2002, and Mom is still living here on earth, patiently waiting until God calls her home. The time has seemed to pass quickly but at first the grief and longing was very intense. If I could take away the pain you are feeling, I would. I pray God will minister to you in many ways during this time of your greatest need, and I ask Him to give you grace and comfort you and help you carry your heavy sorrow. Mom lives alone and she says she gets very lonely. You're going through a terrible and overwhelming time. It's OK to talk about it. I care. I want you to know that.

Permalink Reply by Tammy on August 12, 2017 at 5:57pm

My heart breaks for you brother & I truly don't have any words for you other than I love you.

Permalink Reply by Donald Haines on August 11, 2017 at 3:32pm

To Dave

So you would like to know where I am With my walk with god..RealyI don't where I am with god.Right now I think he is a little mmad with me.God washy salvation, redeemer my everything and i wouldgive my life for him.

But the way things are going right now I don"t know what is going on. All I know right now is I just want to die maybe then I will see my love of my life No not by my hands because I will go to hell and never see my love again

Righr now I can't read the bible becausethe words are too small.NOW I'AM WAITING TO PUT OVER THE PAGE SO I can read again

sionDon Haines Let me know about my idea of just going to die

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Permalink Reply by Donald Haines on August 12, 2017 at 4:35pm

I love my god with all my being, I can't read the bible because mt eyes are going Because of grief and the rest of itONE THING Idon;t understand god took my wife at age79 and married for59 yearsNow here i amworried about my wifeeand all I want god to do is take mee home. I have done everything I se out to do so I have nothing to keep me here. Why wont god tAKE ME HOMEGIVE SOMEONE ELSE A CHANCE OF THEIR NAME BEINB CALL

I just don't understand all of this. That why i have neen saying just let die don't mind me I'am just on my soap box

Don Haines

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Permalink Reply by thewatchman on August 12, 2017 at 6:50pm

Hi Donald, I know everything you are feeling, I lost my husband about 2 1/2 years ago and am still battling with grief. Please know that the LORD is all you need. I have been there and do know this to be true. You were gifted by the LORD to have had her for 59 years, WHAT A GIFT from God.

You don't need to understand, but God does. The chief end of man is to glorify the LORD. Give Him your life, continue to follow Him. Love Him, give to Him Glory, follow Him, worship Him and that's what this world is about.....it's about Him.

I love you and I understand grief, but we, as people who have lost a loved one need not grieve like those who have no hope. ! Thessalonians 4:13--But I would not have you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning them which are asleep, that ye sorrow not, even as others which have no hope.

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Permalink Reply by Niwe on August 11, 2017 at 8:32am

I am sorry about your loss

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Permalink Reply by journeyman on August 11, 2017 at 10:21am

Hello Don, First I say that I am deeply sorry for the great loss you are grieving losing your wife and partner. My wife and I have been married for 40 going on 41 years. She is "my" gift from God and I can certainly understand your sense of great loss and friendship. The great connection you and your beautiful wife shared will never be lost. That will remain in your heart forever. God placed her in your life so even though she is not physically with you she is always in your memories and your heart.

Our comfort is found in God's word, the Holy Bible. Connection with our Heavenly Father is no further away than the book he gave us to help us realize the hope we can have through him. Jesus, our Savior comes alive to us through the New Testament. The Book of John is a great place to begin learning about Jesus and his love for us. I'm very happy that you are on this journey with me Don. I'm blessed all the more by the knowledge of who you are as my friend and Brother in Christ.

Your Brother in Christ,

Journeyman

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Permalink Reply by Donald Haines on August 11, 2017 at 2:05pm

Hi journeyman

Thanks for the letter,made me feel a little better. You may not like this but it's the only thing I can come up with all the trouble that my wife death is causing

I just want to die thats all. If I could get God to go along with this. Do you think he will go along with my idea or do you think he will make me wait.

You see I miss my wife so much I can't take it much longer.I 've been with her for 59 years and I can't away any longer.Let me know what you think of my idea. Thank You Don Haines

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Permalink Reply by Donald Haines on August 13, 2017 at 8:13am

Hi Guy Yes its me Don Haines

How long does it take to get over madness

Yesterday was a very very bad day To be truefulI gryedlike a baby most of the day and thats with all my meds.Does God really know how bad it can get.

All I ccould think of was my wife and why she left and went to heaven. Now all I have to do is hope I can die soon which don't look like it will ever happen

Thank you for being my friend.