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dying in pain :(
Am dying in pain.. I don’t have strength to live in the world.. pls help me in JESUSCHRIST pls pls.
“one year before me and ramya (her name) started becoming friends, she was my school friend in 2006. But last year only we became friends. And we became very close friends within few days.. she likes me much, and I too liked her . she shared her every happiness and pain to me. And I shared my JESUS to her. At that time itself she was engaged by a guy named, vinoth by her family. And I used to help her to speak with him. He is in U.S.A, me and she is in India. The days went , we became very very close and we used to say “ no one in the world is pure in friendship like us”. Yes not only for words we were living like that by JESUS’s grace. The days passed suddenly she met with an accident and her leg got damaged, she undergone a open surgery and by JESUS’s grace nothing happened very severly. Those days we two didn’t sleep even a single day without crying. Yes she used to cry in leg pain. I used to cry in my heart pain by seeing her. The care I showed to her made her to love me. Yes she is in love with me now.
Then she said we cant be as before . “am in love with you”. Then me explained much about our situation and convinced her. Bcoz here in India no parents will allow for love marriage. And also I couldn’t see her as my life partner since she is my friend. Morethan all these, from the day I came into JESUS i am In a decision that “I will marry a girl only if JESUSDAD shows her to me in my prayer “
Her love on me was increasing when the days passed . then I started saying her, “don’t speak with me for few days so that you will forget me for few days and your mindset will change “. She too tried much but she couldn’t do that even for a full day. She used to cry alot. The same try happened more than thrice. Then I realized that she cant even live without me even for a day.
Then her parents started speaking about her marriage with vinoth, but she is in love with me. She is crying alot. And her love made me to change my heart. But I cant say am in love with her. But definitely I can say she is not my friend now. And 100% I know “JESUSDAD alone knows the future, so our marriage should happen with HIS wish alone” she too understood this.
So me and she started praying to JESUSDAD to show HIS wish for past 3 months.. but we didn’t get any reply . now in her home they are arranging the things for her marriage. She is crying in her home. And am here crying in office. We are crying every second. If JESUSDAD says “to leave” surely we are ready to leave. If HE says to marry we are ready to do that also. What we need is, HIS wish alone now. But we both have no strength to leave each other eventhough we are ready to hear JESUSDAD wish. Even our heart cant even bear ,if HE ask us to leave.. And also we know , “we both definitely cant live happily by marrying without JESUSDAD wish”..
If JESUSDAD agrees for our marriage also, now my family and her family wont allow for love marriage and they are ready even to kill us.
We don’t even have few days to take decision.. these days making me and her to feel like “ dying is better than living” .. L L L L
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Permalink Reply by Rita Cullimore on
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Sakthy....
My first question is Ramya a believer in Jesus? That is the very first question that needs to be asked? God doesn't want you unequally yoked to an unbeliever because to do so causes pain in the relationship that might never be overcome. If she isn't, that is my first prayer.
It sounds like you are in love with her.
If you work toward the end of marriage to her, God will make a way as long as she is a believer in the Lord Jesus Christ.
Blessing to you both, in the Name of Jesus, our Lord...
Rita
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Permalink Reply by sakthysharon on
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If you work toward the end of marriage to her, God will make a way as long as she is a believer in the Lord Jesus Christ. i cant get this lines rita..
yes rita she is a believer. pls will you suggest me the way in CHRIST. openly saying i like her and i need her in my life ,but i dont want her without knowing JESUS wish. why JESUS not showing me HIS wish. am passing every seconds with much pain. its the time to take decision for her. tomorrow is the last day that her elder brother gave her to say her suggestion, regarding marriage. and also he said her "it wont take much time for me to kill sakthy and to arrange for your marriage" .. so in fear she said her brother that "am not in love with sakthy".. so how come its possible.. we two dont know what to do. thats why pouring my heart here. pls repy and guide us in CHRIST pls :(
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Sakthy.....
What I was trying to say is God doesn't want us unequally yoked with unbelievers. In other words, He wants us to marry a Christian if we are Christian. As long as Ramya has accepted Christ, she would no longer be unequally yoked with you.
Your situation is difficult because of the arranged marriage practice. If God wants you to be married to Ramya, He will make a way, and do it in His time. He knows when this arranged marriage will take place. Therefore, it is my belief that He will prevent it from happening. God is always on time...He is never late.
I continue my prayers and ask God's blessings upon you and Ramya.
Rita
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no rita.. dying is better than living with this pain.. i cant wait hereafter.. JESUS bless you all..
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Sakthy...
Trust in the Lord with ALL your heart. Don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your path.
Blessings...
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Permalink Reply by Sathish Kumar ( Dan) on
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Bro very critical situation but nothing is too hard for the lord , and we cant do anything against the will of God ,
its not a very big deal that you and Ramya care for eachother and fell in love it happens , But as Gods children we should yoke with unbelievers , If Ramya loves the lord with all her heart its fine , Just Pray for Gods will , if God is willing no matter what happens he will make a way for ur marriage with Ramya , if God is not willing better move out be a good friend to Ramya , God always over sees we dont know what gonna happen next , In life some are called to be good friends and after they get married all problems occur so better Commit his situation in Gods hand and wait if he says nothing just thank him knows whom u gonna marry and he has a good plan for ur life , Cheer up if u wanna loose ur life for this how can u experience all the blessings which god has in store for you ??? I will keep u in my prayers Let Gods will be done .
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