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Permalink Reply by Rita Cullimore on October 12, 2011 at 8:39am

SOMETHING TO SHARE WITH YOU-

As most of you know, my husband, Danny, went home to be with the Lord last Dec 15th. He elected to be cremated. On Saturday following, we had a memorial service in his honor. We invited all of his friends and co-workers to attend and to take part in this home going celebration. There was so much joy and laughter in that chapel that later the funeral director commented that he had never seen anything like it. WE all joined together--laughing and crying-- and we all left knowing that it was time well spent and knowing that it would be a long time before Danny would be forgotten. Later, when family could get to us, we had a interment ceremony. Since his interment, I have not returned to the cemetery.

Danny is with the Lord. I will see him again. I do not need to look at where his house is kept. It is empty. After a friend moves out of town, I do not go to look at where they lived when they were near. Likewise, I do not look in the cemetery. I don't think that God wants us to mourn over the dwelling place that has been discarded, but to look forward to when we can be together again.

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Permalink Reply by Carla on October 12, 2011 at 8:43am

Rita,  This is so beautiful.. It is an encouragement to me, and I believe it will be an encouragement to many others.  thank you so much for sharing.

 

Blessing you sister in Christ, Carla

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Permalink Reply by Judith on October 12, 2011 at 8:49am

Amen Rita, Danny is not there anymore you are right, he is with the Lord, and yes you will be re united with him one day. What a joyous time that will be.

God Bless you sweetheart

Love Judith xx

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Permalink Reply by John P. on October 29, 2011 at 3:00pm

Rita, that was beautiful.

 

 

 

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Permalink Reply by Ron Payne on October 24, 2011 at 9:16am

That's a lovely thought Chip.

Ron

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Permalink Reply by Ron Payne on October 29, 2011 at 11:26pm

Hi all,

Thank you for your input.

Below is an article from About.com Christianity... written by Mary Fairchild.

Mary Fairchild's coverage on the subject appears to cover it all quite efficiently. 

About.com Christianity

What Does the Bible Say About

Cremation?

By Mary Fairchild,

Cremation Versus Burial - A Christian Perspective

With the rising cost of funeral expenses today, many people are choosing cremation instead of burial. However, Christians often have concerns about cremation. They want to be sure the practice of cremation is biblical.

This study offers a Christian perspective, presenting the arguments both in favor and against the practice of cremation.

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Background

Interestingly, there is no specific teaching in the Bible about cremation. Although cremation accounts can be found in the Bible, it was not common or accepted at all for Jews or early believers to be cremated.

Today, traditional Jews are prohibited under the law from practicing cremation. Eastern Orthodox and some Fundamentalist Christian denominations do not allow cremation.

The Islamic faith also forbids cremation.

The word "cremation" is derived from the Latin word "crematus" or "cremare" meaning "to burn up."

During the process of cremation, human remains are placed in a wooden box, and then into a crematorium or furnace. They are heated to temperatures between 870-980 °C or 1600-2000 °F until the remains are reduced to bone fragments and ashes. The bone fragments are then processed in a machine until they resemble coarse sand, light gray in color.

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Arguments Against Cremation

There are Christians who object to the practice of cremation. Their arguments are based on the biblical concept that one day the bodies of those who have died in Christ, will be resurrected and reunited with their souls and spirits. This teaching assumes that if a body has been destroyed by fire, it is impossible for it to be resurrected later and reunited to the soul and spirit.

1 Corinthians 15:35-55

It is the same way with the resurrection of the dead. Our earthly bodies are planted in the ground when we die, but they will be raised to live forever. Our bodies are buried in brokenness, but they will be raised in glory. They are buried in weakness, but they will be raised in strength. They are buried as natural human bodies, but they will be raised as spiritual bodies. For just as there are natural bodies, there are also spiritual bodies.

…Then, when our dying bodies have been transformed into bodies that will never die,

this Scripture will be fulfilled: "Death is swallowed up in victory. O death, where is your victory? O death, where is your sting?"

1 Thessalonians 4:16

"For the Lord himself will come down from heaven, with a loud command, with the voice of the archangel and with the trumpet call of God, and the dead in Christ will rise first." (NIV) (Excerpt Verses 42-44; 54-55 NLT)

More points in opposition to cremation:

• Most of the key people in the Old Testament were buried. In fact, it was considered a dishonor to the people of Israel not to receive a proper burial.

• Most of the people who were burned to death in the Bible were receiving a punishment.

Some practical points against cremation:

• Unless the cremated remains are interred in a perpetual care cemetery, there will be no permanent marker or place to honor and memorialize the life and death of the deceased for generations to come.

• If inurned, cremated remains can be lost or stolen. It is important to consider where and by whom they will be kept, as well as what will happen to them in the future.

Arguments For Cremation

Just because a body has been destroyed by fire, doesn't mean God can't one day resurrect it in newness of life, to reunite it with the soul and spirit of the believer. If God could not do this, then all believers who have died in a fire are without hope of receiving their heavenly bodies.

All flesh and blood bodies eventually decay and become like dust in the earth. Cremation simply speeds the process along. God is certainly able to provide a resurrected body for those who have been cremated. The heavenly body is a new, spiritual body, and not the old body of flesh and blood.

More points in favor of cremation:

• Cremation can be less expensive than burial.

• In certain circumstances, when family members wish to delay the memorial service, cremation allows more flexibility in scheduling a later date.

• The idea of allowing the body to decay in the ground is offensive to some people. A quick, clean disposal by fire is sometimes preferred.

• The deceased or family members may wish to have the cremated remains placed or scattered in a significant location. While this is sometimes an important reason for choosing cremation, additional considerations should be made first: Will there also be a permanent place to honor and memorialize the life of the deceased? For some it’s crucial to have a physical marker—a place that will mark the loved one’s life and death for generations to come. If the cremated remains are to be inurned, it is important to consider where and by whom they will be kept, as well as what will happen to them in the future. For this reason, it may be preferable to have the cremated remains interred in a perpetual care cemetery.

Resolution

Cremation vs. Burial - A Personal Decision

Oftentimes family members have strong feelings about the way they want to be laid to rest. Some Christians are firmly opposed to cremation, while others much prefer it to burial. The reasons are varied, but often private and very meaningful to them.

How you want to be laid to rest is a personal decision. It is important to discuss your wishes with your family, and also know the preferences of your family members. This will make funeral preparations a little easier for everyone involved.

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