Vision.

Did you know it is a curse to under duress to take care of the previous family generation. We find this in most societies because many without knowing it fall into this rut often out of guilt and tradition. Now, I am not saying we ought not to support the older generation before us, but as the middle generation, there is a lot of pressure and stress to support our kids and parents at the same time. In eastern cultures, this is more prevalent and goes more to the working generation's shame and guilt if not done.

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