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I would like to thank everbody for such a nice welcome.

I am trying to reach god and I pray numerous times throughout each day. I am separated for 3 months. In a strange turn of events my Christian wife left me, and so Far I am as they say a semi type believer. Let me first say I did not commit adultery which the bible describes as a reason for divorce. I have no real evidence that my wife has commited adultery either. The only fact I can go on is after 6 weeks I decided I better try and find her. I found her at another mans house which was exactly where I hoped she would not be. I felt so violated and got so emotionally upset, I made threats. I just could not control my tongue and that may be the reason I have lost any chance for communication.

I have had no news of anything since this separation started. It's a feeling of like losing a child in the mall. Absolutely no-one will tell me what is going on, maybe they just do not know except a very few. Possibly the blackout is to create tension. I read that secretive persons use this method to control. I find it odd that a Christian woman would like to make another suffer. I pray to God to give me patience and relieve anxiety.

There was no physical fighting between us, but there were words and as I have the construction type personality. I suppose my words would seem abusive to someone not used to that type of display. It wasn't name calling either, I just am too forcefull when I have built up enough anger.

I would say that my purpose is to reach God and see if he can help recconciliate this marriage. I have read quite a bit of new testament including 1 Corinthians. Malachai says god hates divorce.1 Corinthians explains under what conditions God allows divorce. Nevertheless with all the scripture, I myself want to honor the vows I made before God and witnesses.

This marriage was two and half years old. I am working with a pastor who has sent a person to help me with discovering the gospel. I am studying and praying continously but I just cannot shut my mind off thinking about my lost partner.

I am sure this may be normal for the divorcee. Oddly I do not know if this affects the divorcer that much. Maybe the divorcer has moved on long before and is already into a new relationship which consumes all thier fantasy and energy.

So I ask God to help. We cannot control other people but God says do not give up hope. I hope God hears me.

Thank you all for the warm greetings and for reading this.

Amen

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Comment by maggie hancox on August 25, 2009 at 7:40pm
Dear freind, you are right to say we can not control other people, but you CAN build a relationship that will last forever. Built on the rock of Jesus Christ.

"But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well."Matthew 6:33

If you seek first your relationship with God our Father, learning about his nature and his ways, he will heal all of your pain. Also giving you the desires of your heart.

These dear freind are the promises of God.

I do not say that he will give you back your wife, for I do not know that, but I do know that what pain this has caused you, our Father God will turn for your good, restoring to you the joy and peace that you seek.

Be patient dear freind and give every trouble you have to God, talk to him like anyone you dearly love, read about him, talk to others who know him. Pay attention to what he requires of you, knowing that he commands only two things, love the LORD your God with all your heart, your mind and all your strength, and love your neighbour as yourself.
If you build a relationship with God you will see the fulfillment of the promises he has made to us all, in your own life.

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