guess god makes choices

JOHN 14:13-14
And whatsoever ye shall ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. 14 If ye shall ask any thing in my name, I will do it


I have been struggling for 8 months now to ask God in Jesus name for some sign to try and rescue a marriage where I felt there was some opportunity or a ray of hope.

Sadly I am told the divorce is in final stages and will be served to the day. I find it so hard to accept. The wife was never abused, we paid off her debts, she had freewill to do as she chose. Unfortunately she choose another at the same time as decrying she was a devout Christian.

If Jesus and God made no attempt to answer or for whatever reasons did not try and reach her, THEN I ask what purpose , what avenue are they fulfilling in her world. She has committed the crimes of an unregenerate sinner, yet she has all this church support, seems to have all the lords support, yet with all my appeals to to The lord, I feel so ignored, hopeless, thrown aside like the some seeds end up in the weeds.

I'm bothered, I really am. I would go to extremes to make things work and have done everything fathomable to explore myself and see what reveals my own problems.

I guess it depends on your partner to either engage in figuring things out, or just wanting selfish destinations. My guess is from their point of view, theres not much to loose by wandering. I do not know any truth.

Seperated Pat