cheating spouse

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Comment by Ashley Roberts on December 14, 2011 at 2:07pm

Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers. my pastor told me to forgive. He told me that I should try to work things out. All i can do is think about what he has done to me and his family. I might be able to forgive but i do not think i can ever forgive him for what he did. 

Comment by Ashley Roberts on November 16, 2011 at 9:08am

i've decided to leave him. I will not be able to trust and I cannot love someone i cannot trust...

Comment by Grace by the Lake on September 7, 2011 at 12:38pm

I agrre in this prayer,in Jesus most precious Name. Amen

Comment by William Adams (rockabillie) on September 7, 2011 at 11:52am

Ashley,

Lord, I visualise someone I know who is hurting, and hold them in your loving, healing presence, that you may fill them with your peace. In our anxiety, fear and uncertainty, when hearts are heavy with the load we bear, and there is no one to turn toward but you;
Yours is the peace that calms, the peace that comforts, the peace that gives us strength to carry on.
Yours is the voice we long to hear, the persistent whisper in our ear,                                                 ‘Be still, and know that I am God’.
Yours is the presence in the dark that banishes our fears.
Yours is the hand that guides, the footprints in which we walk.
In our anxiety, fear and uncertainty in confidence we turn to you. 

Sometimes words are not enough to express the language of our hearts,

Sometimes minds are filled with prayers without expression.                                                    Sometimes there are not enough spare moments in each day,
Sometimes regret is all we have as our confession.                                                                              Sometimes faith is not enough but in the presence of your peace,
Sometimes prayer can be a quiet conversation.                                                                           Sometimes words are not enough to express the anguish on our hearts,
Sometimes prayers are answered that remain unspoken.

We ask Lord that you bless Ashley as she hurts with anger and tries to come to terms with this blow in her life. Nothing that we can say will make any difference to her husband, but he cannot stop our prayers. We pray Father that you will help Ashley over the coming days and weeks and we pray for a solution. We ask this in Jesus name, Amen.

Comment by Grace by the Lake on September 7, 2011 at 10:36am

You are NOT alone Ashley. Continueing in pray for you. All of us !

Comment by William Ronald Hull,Jr. on September 7, 2011 at 10:30am

Dear ASHLEY, I know this hard for you, as I have put my family through this situation.  22 years ago I cheated on my wife , which almost killed her emotionally. She and I went to counseling and healing began in her life and mine also. The problem I had was not breaking the soul ties mainly with my family. My brothers were very much involved, which led to my infidelity. Granted they are not to blame, the fault is mine and mine alone. But when I broke all ties true healing began, and my wife needed to know that it wasn't her fault and it is not your fault either. No matter what is said his infidelity is his and his alone. Ashely, Nancy is right go to your Pastor and seek guidance. I will continue to pray for you and your husband and that he will come to true repentance. To put Jesus first in his life, and allow you the time to heal. May God's Peace and Love fill your heart an mind,and soul,in Jesus Name Amen.

Comment by Grace by the Lake on September 7, 2011 at 9:37am

Running away will make you have to deal with it longer. Ashley. I know it is very difficult but you need to pray and ask for comfort and peace amidst this storm. Do you have a home church and Pastor. If so I would seek Christian counselling there. Try your very best not to confront your husband until the initial shock has subsided. I pray God's strength , comfort ,peace and healing upon you right now , in Jesus Name.