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32Do not cause anyone to stumble, whether Jews, Greeks or the church of God (1 Corinthians 10:32)

Today I visited an acquaintance. We were supposed to be visiting the Healing Room Christchurch but it was closed because of the school holidays. Upon my arrival I saw his state of being was not too flash. He
felt rejected by society and most of all by what are supposed to be his
brothers and sisters in the body of Christ. Being the person whom he
is, he did not blame or curse any off the people with whom he shares his
faith; instead he wondered whether God had abandoned him and that as a
result his fellow Christians were abandoning him.

I was reminded of some of the lessons I got when going through Law School. I thought back at how revealing it was to me that in law ot was not just what you did that could be legally relevant but also what you
did not do: your omissions. Paul very eloquently does not use any words
that could indicate actions, he uses the verb causing. Which could also
mean omission or in-actions. Could it maybe be that this was not a case
of abandonment by God but by fellow Christians?

Admittedly, a wrong impression may easily occur. But looking through Christian goggles, that still does not mean that this man does not deserve a chance, no matter how different and needy he may be. And
speaking from personal experience; give this man a chance and you will
find a beautiful creation with a considerable depth in terms of faith
and spirituality, despite some mental/psychological/psychiatric
background and problems. Personally I can say, I have learned a lot from
my acquaintance with him first and foremost that THERE IS SOMETHING
BEAUTIFUL IN EVERYONE IF WE ARE WILING TO LOOK FOR IT. But are we all
looking for it? Or are we feeling more at ease with just staying at a
distance.How sad is it really if a pastor from Auckland need to shop
around and see whether there is a church that will accept this man for
who he is?

Well what about your own church?

He does not want to go there any longer because of how he has been approached. He wouldn’t go there even if I tried to take him and believe me I will, again and again, despite his objections. What do you say to
someone that cries out to you: “I have no church to go to anymore.” What
do you say to someone that is experiencing a paradox daily as a
resulted of the well meant but safe advice of fellow Christians.

You should be more amongst people.


However implicitly or explicitly it is also made clear that this does not include ‘the people’ that form part of the body of the ‘wise adviser.’ It all reminded me of the healing through Jesus, most of all
the healing at the Pool of Bethesda. On several occasions people are
urged by Jesus to go to the Temple. This is not so in the text of John 5
but thee a second encounter with the healed invalid takes place in the
Temple. A number of the healings performed had a another significance:
hey did not just mean a physical healing, but also a spiritual healing
which ensured that people could be entering the temple again. People
that were crippled, or had other physical or mental conditions were not
allowed access to the Temple, the core of their faith as a result of the
Mishnah, the laws for Israel derived from the scriptures. Jesus did not
just physically heal them, he ensured that the could be reconciled with
the core of their faith in God. It fits in perfectly with his mission,
with the concept that God wants to reconcile with His creation and uses
Jesus and so illustrative are the words

“See, you are well again. Stop sinning or something worse may happen to you.” (John 5: 14)

He did not say “Stay well” but “stop sinning.” At the same time how harsh a law that prevents people that need it the most to have entry to the core of their faith. What else is there left than to stumble? What
else is there left than to think that ‘you are not worthy of God’s grace
because God’s law ordains it’?

At the same time I now wonder what is harder for a man: being denied on the basis of a religious law that is supposedly put in place by people that knew what they were doing, or being denied by people that
purportedly care about your health and well being also in the spiritual
sense?

You’d be better of finding another church, you would not or do not fit in. You are better of where there are more people like you.

Is this not the word upside down, and certainly not in line with what Jesus was teaching? Paul, referenced at the start, continued:

For I am not seeking my own good, but the good of many so they many be saved.” (1 Corinthians 10: 33)

Do we need to fit in with the worldly standards of the congregation of who is acceptable and who is not or do we as a Body of Christ show the world that there is a place within the body for anyone and everyone
no matter what their state of being is. Yes it may be inconvenient in
worldly terms, bit is that a reason to deny access, whether explicitly
or implicitly?

I could well imagine someone saying to me referring to 1 Corinthians 10: 13:

Well if this man is tempted to turn away from God because of out alleged actions and omissions should we not expect God to provide a way for this man to stand under this temptation?

My rhetorical answer would be:

You are absolutely right, but given what I said earlier on, could it maybe be that we as the church, as the body of Christ arre that way out if we are willing to face the inconvenient worldly truth
that comes with that.

Paul said:

20For the kingdom of God is not a matter of talk but of power. (1 Corinthians 4:20)

With that in mind as well as out claim to be living out the full Gospel what is holding us back to restore this man to a state where he is no longer denied the core of his faith.

The Parable of the Lost Sheep

10“See that you do not look down on one of these little ones. For I tell you that their angels in heaven always see the face of my Father in heaven. 11 “The son of man came to save what was lost
(only according to some manuscripts)

12“What do you think? If a man owns a hundred sheep, and one of them wanders away, will he not leave the ninety-nine on the hills and go to look for the one that wandered off? 13And if
he finds it, I tell you the truth, he is happier about that one sheep
than about the ninety-nine that did not wander off. 14In the
same way your Father in heaven is not willing that any of these little
ones should be lost. (Mathhew 18: 10-14)

Can we really look ourselves in the eye when we have to admit that it is our worldly standards rather than our spiritual that is keeping such a man away from a fellowship in Christ? Is it maybe time for a “gutter
bucket” ministry? And if so, “why me?”

What am I to do? Your words of wisdom would be appreciated as I am lost in this all.


This post was orginally posted at http://johndierckx.wordpress.com/2010/07/16/an-inconvenient-truth/

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Comment by John Dierckx on July 17, 2010 at 7:30am
Hahaha, Maty your story speaks to me . I have had this with wearing my ugg boots and there is actually a dicussion about it on my facebook profile. Like you I believe that God looks on the inside and as for me, I feel comfortable in my uggs so I wear them when playing. For a joke I will surprise the congregation later today and dress up when I need to play.
Comment by John Dierckx on July 16, 2010 at 5:24pm
Hi Mary,

Thank you for the comments that is really really helpful. It is funny, as someone else have read my post as a 'complaint' and wondered whether my complaint is perhaps my calling. I explained that it was not s much a complaint but an expression of a feeling of being helpless. Not being able to assist effectively in that one thing this man was longing for; a church he could call his home and where he can celebrate his relationship with God together in a fellowship that accepts him for who he is.

I guess you are right, He led me to this man and some others, He will take care of them.

I also realized: who am I to impose my understanding of God's standard on other believers. Instead of going against the grain I should indeed perhaps start looking around for other options: be Creative. All in all it is quite a sobering experience and a good mirror held up right in front me. Self-righteousness and being judgmental is a trap very easily walked into and I was balancing on the edges. People like yourself are a blessing, thanks for making me see, for not letting me fall into the trap (any further).

Love and blessings,

John
Comment by John Dierckx on July 16, 2010 at 1:19am
Thank you Mary, any advise maybe?

Love and blessings,


John

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