Welcome, Marie S.!

I am going through a frustration time right now with family members. I know it is the right thing to do to help others when they are in need. But when can you say"No" or " I dont want to help you because of the things you do".? Which I do know the answer to, but you are welcome to respond,lol. I havent heard from my mom side of the family in years. Now that they are in need, me and my mom are there for them especially my mom because its her sister. My cousins lives a…

I recently found out something about my family's past that has been bothering me. I find it quite difficult to forget about the past, I know we are suppose to let go. I honestly don't know how. I forgive the men in my life for taking my innocence, but when I see one of the men, I get really mad and sometimes cry. But anyway, when I think about the past I get so upset. I blame the men for messing up my childhood. I sometimes think if they hadn't I would have a been a better person today as…