I am married for 5 years and my husband just told me the first week of January that he loved me to death as the mother of his kids but not in love with me. I felt like a knife just ripped through my heart. We had so much going on when we got married that I do acknowledge that we forgot about ourselves. I was already pregnant when we got married (we planned the baby before the marriage) then a year after that we had anotehr baby, bought a home, finances, husband bad luck with jobs, got laid off twice in one year to busy with kids we forgot about going out like a date night or things that we use to do before the kids were born. Husband and I rarely saw each other, I worked day time he workd night time. Now that he has been in this job for a year he feels that he is finally succeding and that his job is number 1, himself and the boys and I am not in the picture at all. We tried counseling but I stopped that I did not see that doing anything to us, I told my husband to move out, he did, his stuff still here but he does not sleep here. I ask god every day to please heal his heart and let him realize what he is doing to us, I am in so much pain that I decided to file for divorce he will be getting served next week. He wanted a legal separation but I rather just end it. If anyone has been going through what I am please pray for me and kids, so my husband can realize what he is doing, he is a different person, I feel like satan has taking over him. I know god is listening to me every day and I even feel his presence or when I am crying I know he is beside me. Thank you for your support.

Milena

Hi Milena,

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Milena, I am very sorry to hear that you are going through this circumstance in your life. I am very glad however that God has lead you here to this wonderful place. I pray that Jesus will heal your life and put the pieces back together. Thank you for trusting us and joining us here. We are blessed to have you here. Please check out the forum, you may find some answers there to your questions. Also, please join in the 'ladies only' group. Just go to groups at the top of the page and you will see where it is. I also urge you to stay in His word...go to sleep with your bible each and every night and pray as your are reading that you will have revelation. Please go to my page and watch a video I have posted. It is called "How He Loves". To go to my page all you have to do is click on my picture, and it will take you directly there!

Please let me know what questions you have. Once again, thanks for joining TheNET. I hope you make lots of good friends here and continue to grow in the wisdom and knowledge of the Lord!

God Bless You dear friend! Carla/NET moderator

Hello my friend Milena!!!
I am honored to be your friend here on TheNet. What a blessing to have you join us all as we grow in love and wisdom in Christ daily.
I read you introduction and I replied to it just indicating how great it is that you have found a whole new life and now you have a whole new, exciting future ahead of you as you walk in Him daily. I tell you, that sometimes there will be bumps in the road,sometimes cracks and crevices, and even big deep holes, but God will be there walking with you holding your hand every step of the way.
I came from a bad past, and Im still healing from it. Sometimes you just dont heal from things right away, but God is healing you in the way He wants to heal you in His timing. I get frustrated and want instant healing, but God doesnt do that sometimes. He wants to develop perseverance, patience, meekness, humility, and total dependancy on Him and His power. If he heals us right away, then where is the reliance? Where is the dependency and growth? I believe that God has kept a few things in my life so that I would do just that. To continue to hang on to him as I go through each season of my life. I am 35 and I have 2 small children, and being a mother has really been a tough job. Its a big responsibility especially when you want to raise them in a godly way in an ungodly world. So I get scared, but I have to lean on Him.
I want to tell you that you are not alone. I have been saved since 2002, and I still struggle. We all do. I love you my friend.God Bless!!!
Paige

I have sent alot of vidieo out today.I believe it was one of two so will send both.

If you go to youtube you can down load videos to your page by copying the enbed code and paist the code on your page and the video will automatically go on page. I hope it was one of the two I sent. You'll be blessed by these any how. God bless BobB

Milena i"am new here but i want you to no i will have you in my prayers for you and your family and may God bless you all Ralph.V

I wanted to leave this video with you. We had a young lady dance to this song today at church. It was amazing, It was filmed so I hope it is put on youtube so it can be shared. God grant you the grace to leave your burden at the foot of the cross.

I was so blessed to see that you already are reaching out to other hurting people on this net. We really can comfort others with the comfort we have received.

hello
Greetings to you inJesus
Regards
rari

Hey sister this is your new motto

I felt led of the lord to put the video on your page.Check out all the stuff on caring for separated or divorced Christian. lots of good stuff that could encourage you. Share your situation with the group so they can all be there for you. Stand no more alone. Thats what God told me 2 years ago. You are in my prayers bobBu

hello dear
thanks for the message
my baby is fine ,,,he has had a terrible cold but now he is getting better
sorry am not in kenya .am staying in japan with my family .we are studying here.
we will travel back next year
my family tells me that its now safe and they are now working
my dear i know this moment your heart is broken ,,,,but i tell you ,,,,trust in GOD and he shall give you the desire of your hearthis will is everlasting
GOD BLESS YOU
Veronica

The Sparrow
Billingsley/Banks

Early morning sunshine, dew is on the ground.
The singing of a sparrow makes a joyful sound.
It's the song of strength and endurance, giving me assurance,
That Jesus is near, when hope cannot be found.

Sometimes I am strong, and others I am weak.
It's a struggle to become what I really need to be.
I worry about tomorrow…until I hear the sparrow,
And I'm reminded of the promise…He'll take care of me.

The sparrow never worries where to get supplies.
He just flies until he finds it, under God's watchful eye.
And if the Lord can know so closely, the simple pathways of a bird,
Will He not provide His children, protection from this world?

So I'll sing because I'm happy.
And I'll sing because I'm free,
For His eye is on the sparrow
And I know He watches me.

the picture of you and your daughter touched my heart as I am a mother of 3 girls. I hope that you are having a blessed sunday.
your family in him....
Charla

Good to see you on the net tonight. Hope all is well. BobB

hello my dear friend and sister
how are you doing,,sorry i have not been writing to you,,,am doing well and my baby too.we are staying in a new country ,,,japan.....and you know the challenges you can face being away from home...any way we are fine.how is everything
i hope you are well and all i send you is GODs blessing
in HIM all is well
be blessed
veronica

I will be praying for you. I know how hard it is to balance everything.. I work full time and have 4 girls. We women need to lift each other up..:0)
Have a blessed day!
Charla

Dear Sister Milena
Thank you for coming to my life and becoming my friend. God bless you always.

With love in Christ: Christy Gabriel B

One Step At A Time

One step at a time is the best way to go
When going through life and traveling in the direction of your dreams
The best way to get ahead is the simpliest way:
Take one step at a time
Don’t look over your shoulder
If you do, you’ll feel the weight of all your yesterdays upon you
And don’t worry about what lies ahead
By the time you get to the bend in the road or the crest of the hill
You’re going to be better and stronger than you ever were before
Just go one step at a time
One day at a time
And you’ll find a rich, thankful life you never thought you could afford….

THE NARROW GATE
There are two ways in this world and the age to come. [(That are the will of God and our will, (HEAVEN and HELL)] .The narrow gate is the will of God and the wide gate is our will. In fact, God has control of everything in heaven and on earth and under earth but there is something special that He has given us to make our choice which is called WILL. When we read the book of Genesis 2:15 to 17, the Lord gave them (man and his wife) only one commandment that, they are free to eat everything in the Garden except the fruit of life and evil. Adam and the wife could not abide by this commandment because the Lord God gave them free will to choose good and evil. They made their choice and they have to die. The same way today, God has given us only one Man (JESUS CHRIST) that if we believe in him, we will be saved and not perish like our father Adam and the wife Eve. You can read that in the book of Romans 10:9 “If you confess with your mouth, Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raise him from the death, you will be saved”.
To be part of the kingdom of God, one needs to call upon the Lord and do his will. In the above verse, the word “saved” meaning being regenerated (the latter is by the birth of divide life).To call upon the Lord suffices for us to be saved (Roman 10:13) but to be part of the kingdom of God we also need to do the will of God. Hence not everyone who says Lord, lord, will enter the kingdom of God but those who called upon the Lord and do His will. It is very important to enter through the narrow gate, which lead to everlasting life.Matthew7:13 say” Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction and many enter through it “One may ask, am i on the narrow road or the broad road? How will you know that you are on the narrow road? The bible is the measure which you must use to examine your spiritual life. Search the will of God in all your ways. Roman 12:2 “Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world ,but be transformed by renewing your mind .Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is ___his good , pleasing and perfect will”.
When we are born again, we need to do the will of God because in heaven only the will of God will be done. So called Christian today teaches that if you called upon Christ you will be surely be part of the kingdom of God without doing the will of God but let me assure you that Christ needs those who will do the will of God in His kingdom. Let us read Matthew 7:21”Not everyone that says to me Lord, lord, will enter into the kingdom of God, but only he who does the will of my father who is in heaven” It is good to call upon the Lord but we must also do His will in other to enter into the kingdom of God. We have to be in the track of the Lord Jesus.
A true Christian always faces problems and the journey is not easy. Apostle Paul said that nothing that can separate him from the lord. Remember we are always the winners because we are on the wining side. Be strong and courageous and walk through the narrow gate till you receive the crown of salvation. Hold firm to prayer, Holiness and evangelism. The first disciples hold firmly to prayer, evangelism and Holiness to receive the crown of salvation. Jesus want all of us to be saved but it will be painful that “day” He will say to some that He does not know them (Matt 25:12).
By your servant KWAME DERRICK
If you have any question, you can contact me by email:
Kwame_derrick@yahoo.com ; Mobile phone numbers:
Togo: 002289529228
Ghana: 00233243613286
Website: freewebs.com/fishersmen

hi milena,
I browsed ur profile and was amazed at your interest.

God is your strenght.

a friend that joined the site

Acha C. Emmanuel

hello my dear friend
how are you getting on.....i hope all is well with you.
as for me am fine,my family is doing well only that my little boy caught a cold ,,,,though he is getting better now
its been really a long time thats why i thought of just dropping bye to say hello
have a great day
veronica

be bless and stay encourage

PLEASE KEEP ON SERVING THE LORD IN THIS SITE BECAUSE YOU ARE NEEDED HERE. GBY

I am being made aware that Jesus is coming sooner than many think. Many will not be ready for His return. We need to be ready, wise virgins, keeping oil in our lamps.

Please do keep on praying for the request of mine down below, and I know I can count on you to do it:

Please "WIN the 10/40 WINDOWS" for JESUS CHRIST.
The 10/40 Windows (located between 10 - 40 degrees North of Equator - between West Africa to East Asia) need Missionaries, have no church at all, and there live about 40 percent of the world population. INDONESIA, my country is in the 10-40 windows though we have churches. Let's get on our knees, praying hand in hand with me for their revival. I look forward to the day when the Lord who I kneel to worship will be recognized by all the living and the dead as the One True Lord.
Thank you so very much

With love in Christ: Christy Gabriel B

PLEASE KEEP ON PRAYING FOR THE UNSAVED AND SINNING ONES ALL OVER THE WORLD BECAUSE JESUS IS COMING SOONEST. JBY

I am being made aware that Jesus is coming sooner than many think. Many will not be ready for His return. We need to be ready, wise virgins, keeping oil in our lamps.

Please do keep on praying for the request of mine down below, and I know I can count on you to do it:

Please "WIN the 10/40 WINDOWS" for JESUS CHRIST.
The 10/40 Windows (located between 10 - 40 degrees North of Equator - between West Africa to East Asia) need Missionaries, have no church at all, and there live about 40 percent of the world population. INDONESIA, my country is in the 10-40 windows though we have churches. Please also pray for ISRAEL and all over the world. Let's get on our knees, praying hand in hand with me for their revival. I look forward to the day when the Lord who I kneel to worship will be recognized by all the living and the dead as the One True Lord.
Thank you so very much

With love in Christ: Christy Gabriel B

I am being made aware that Jesus is coming sooner than many think. Many will not be ready for His return. We need to be ready, wise virgins, keeping oil in our lamps.

With much love in Christ: Christy Gabriel B