Yea, just going to rehab without physically staying at one isn't going to work. They need to go away to one & not to the same one. Rarely do 2 addicts make it work either. You need to keep those doors locked though for your own safety brother. Still praying.

Love you brother. This is a horrible situation they put us in. They take away our lives & force us to live theirs.

You said, "My kids weren't perfect either." You also said that your wife said, "That's my son". Is this not your son too or is this your step-son?