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What about the very common practice of Online dating?
Is online dating really safe and acceptable for Christians?
Many people are apprehensive at first about online dating. This is a normal reaction because it is fear of the unknown.
However, online dating is popular and more accepted in today's society.
In this fast moving society, many people have less time to socialize with others. More people are working harder and longer hours, trying to make ends meet. Thanks to new technologies, online single dating is fast becoming a common means of meeting people.
Do people really lie on online dating sites?
Most people are honest. Unfortunately, not everyone is truthful about the information they will give you. Sometimes people lie out of fear of being rejected.
This type of person may lie about his weight, looks or other physical features. This has to do more with insecurities, in which we all suffer from at one time or another.
Others may not tell the truth because they do not want something to be uncovered in their life. These people may lie about their job, occupation, income or whether they are seeing someone else.
Still, some may not be truthful because they are habitual liars. These people will lie about almost anything. Where they live, their occupation and assets.
Keep your eyes open for people who are being dishonest. Christian relationships are founded on trust and if you can't trust an individual, then quickly move them out of your search for a potential Christian match.
How do I choose a Christian Dating Partner?
As a Christian, it should be important for you to have Christ-centered relationships. Wisely consider if the person you are dating is one of good character and morals. This includes friendship, as well as dating mates. One thing to keep in mind: do not be in such a hurry! Be certain their beliefs line up with yours. Some religions can differ in beliefs when it comes to the bible and the deity of Jesus Christ. Allow a new relationship to grow. Get to know each individual and each individual is needs also, including your own. This is especially important for single Christian parents.
http://www.christianmingle.com/tips_and_advice/safe_dater.html
THOUGHTS
Many people are apprehensive at first about online dating. This is a normal reaction because it is fear of the unknown.
However, online dating is popular and more accepted in today's society.
In this fast moving society, many people have less time to socialize with others. More people are working harder and longer hours, trying to make ends meet. Thanks to new technologies, online single dating is fast becoming a common means of meeting people.
Do people really lie on online dating sites?
Most people are honest. Unfortunately, not everyone is truthful about the information they will give you. Sometimes people lie out of fear of being rejected.
This type of person may lie about his weight, looks or other physical features. This has to do more with insecurities, in which we all suffer from at one time or another.
Others may not tell the truth because they do not want something to be uncovered in their life. These people may lie about their job, occupation, income or whether they are seeing someone else.
Still, some may not be truthful because they are habitual liars. These people will lie about almost anything. Where they live, their occupation and assets.
Keep your eyes open for people who are being dishonest. Christian relationships are founded on trust and if you can't trust an individual, then quickly move them out of your search for a potential Christian match.
How do I choose a Christian Dating Partner?
As a Christian, it should be important for you to have Christ-centered relationships. Wisely consider if the person you are dating is one of good character and morals. This includes friendship, as well as dating mates. One thing to keep in mind: do not be in such a hurry! Be certain their beliefs line up with yours. Some religions can differ in beliefs when it comes to the bible and the deity of Jesus Christ. Allow a new relationship to grow. Get to know each individual and each individual is needs also, including your own. This is especially important for single Christian parents.
http://www.christianmingle.com/tips_and_advice/safe_dater.html
THOUGHTS
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Permalink Reply by David Velasquez on
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Good word beloved. I have a couple of books on the shelve because of similar issues bro so i can relate.
I will look for your when is published bro. Do let me know.
Blessings to you and your home beloved. -
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Permalink Reply by Dee Ramos on
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JUST MY VIEW BUT A MAN MARRIED AND LIES TO YOU, YOU FIND OUT
BUT KEEP ON WITH HIM FRIENDSHIP YOU SAY. YOU DESERVE BETTER, SEEK GOD FOR A GODLY MATE. I WASNT EVEN LOOKING AND GOD SENT ME SOMEONE
SO WONDERFUL. WE ARE MILES AND DISTANCE APART HE IS FROM NIGERIA
AND AS GOD MOVES AND PROVIDES WE WILL MEET IN GODS TIMING NOT OUR TIMING. -
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It's nice to here that Dee. But you have to be very careful. I am from Nigeria, I know my country people. I will appreciate it if you can show me his first letter to you. Can you? If you can't, I understand. Thanks.
Blessings...
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Louis,
Thank you for your willingness to minister here.
Dee-
I believe our Brother Louis's heart is in the right place and is familiar with the schemes coming out from that side of the word. When I read your post I felt I should say something and then got caught up on other things. Speaking our concerns to you in love is not the easiest thing to do because these are delicate matters, but be assured that we have your best interest in mind.
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thank you yes I also believe his heart is right and sent from God I had one other warning and let it go. I have been praying for Gods revealing and his will and protection in all this over me. I BELIEVE YOU DO HAVE MY BEST INTEREST AND GOD USING YOU. AS I SAID I HAVENT BEEN HERE FOR AWHILE BUT TODAY HERE I AM AND READ BOTH YOUR POST
THANK YOU AND GOD HELP ME (THE TRUTH WILL SET ME FREE)
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I HAVE NOT BEEN HERE FOR AWHILE BUT OCCASSIONALY CHECK IN AND I BELIEVE NOW THAT I HAVE READ THESE POST IT WAS GOD THAT MOVED ME TO COME HERE TODAY.
LOUIS I SENT A FRIEND REQUEST TO YOU YES I AM INTERESTED IN WHAT YOU HAVE TO SAY ABOUT NIGERIAN PEOPLE. AND I WANT TO HEAR WHAT YOU HAVE TO SAY YES I HAVE THE FIRST EMAIL
AND I WILL ADMIT THOUGHT HE WAS PUSHING FAST AND NOW I AM HERE FIVE MONTHS LATER
REALLY NEED TO TALK WITH YOU AS I HAVE BEEN SEEKING GOD ON ALL THIS. SOMETHING IS WONG I FEEL AND NO PEACE ANY LONGER HERE IS MY EMAIL dee_2009@mchsi.com I would like to discuss and share but not publicy here and I believe god is going to speak through you to me and I do need help what a mess I have gotten into. -
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Permalink Reply by Na Na on
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Hi Linda,
Please read in I Phiro 3:1. I think it helps you know what should you do. It's really hard for him to understand God word only talking to him and please don't forget to pray to God, give all in his hands, read Bible and he will lead you to the right way. God will make a way when there seem to be no way. God bless you and I pray for you too.
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Permalink Reply by David Velasquez on
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Robin,
You pretty much summed up my own experience. Even those appearing to be spiritually mature on line had alternative motives and were ok with sex outside of marriage, it was disappointing.
JOin The cLub Robin hahaha of all of us believing and waiting on God's goodness. He is good and Loving.
He does not forget any of us. -
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I am always clowning and i am tempted to joke around about your loast comment, but in reality it breaks my heart that is so hard to find compatible mates that truly Love and want to obey the Lord today.
They are out there, but as you said so perfectly, one learns that we: "can't rush God. You can try, but it is not going to work. It also showed me that I need to pray about it all, and let it go."
That is it young sis - you got it beloved. God bless you friend. -
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Permalink Reply by jolivic montanez on
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amen..its really true..do not be in such a hurry!
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Permalink Reply by Zethu on
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Online dating is not safe or good for anyone. Christian or not. firstly these people don't give you the facts about who they are. we all kn ow that we have to wait upon God for everything and not run around searching for soulmates online.
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Good advise Zethu. There are testimonies of those who met through the net and have been blessed, but more often than not we hear about the horrible disappointments.
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