My wife is from norfolk va and has four kids back there and wonts to move back there in june but I have no job back there as I am thr only one of us working here and I asked her what we where going to do all she can tell mr is that she wants to go home but we have yo kids of our own i love her and my kids to death they are my life i just don't know what to do and this group has helped me out a lot over the last few months snce i be came a member and accepted jesus as my savor please if y'all could give me some advice. To all that draw breath be blessed in his love
Permalink Reply by RoyW on November 14, 2010 at 9:34am
Michael,
I am assuming these four kids back in Norfolk are married or since left the home as adults. It is very difficult to break the family tie. I am also assuming these four are not your children. Assuming the corrections of the assumption I would ask about the other father. I will pray but would need more information to advise. Do you have a great job where you are? Is so, right now jobs are really difficult to come by. I would recommend not moving until you could replace your income in VA. Your responsibility is to your own children. I personally raised five and know the hardships involved. How far do you live from VA? Could you get some time off to go and look for a job?
I would recommend encouraging your wife not to go until these conditions are met. God will help you in your decision. He will be with you in your decision. We serve a wonderful Lord.