A Standers Affirmation for all couples that need a complete restoration for their marriage should read this document

A Standers Affirmation


I AM STANDING FOR THE HEALING OF MY MARRIAGE!... I will not give up,
give in, give out or give over 'til that healing takes place. I made a vow, I said the words,
I gave the pledge, I gave a ring, I took a ring, I gave myself, I trusted GOD, and said the
words, and meant the words... in sickness and in health, in sorrow and in joy, for better or
for worse, for richer or for poorer, in good times and in bad...so I am standing NOW, and
will not sit down, let down, slow down, calm down, fall down, look down or be down 'til
the breakdown is torn down!
I refuse to put my eyes on outward circumstances, or listen to prophets of doom, or buy
into what is trendy, worldly, popular, convenient, easy, quick, thrifty, or advantageous...
nor will I settle for a cheap imitation of God's real thing, nor will I seek to lower God's
standard, twist God's will, rewrite God's word, violate God's covenant, or accept what
God hates, namely divorce!
In a world of filth, I will stay pure; surrounded by lies I will speak the truth; where
hopelessness abounds, I will hope in God: where revenge is easier, I will bless instead of
curse; and where the odds are stacked against me, I will trust in God's faithfulness.
I am a STANDER, and I will not acquiesce, compromise, quarrel or quit.. I have made
the choice, set my face, entered the race, believed the Word, and trusted God for all the
outcome.
I will allow neither the reaction of my spouse, nor the urging of my friends, nor the
advice of my loved ones, nor economic hardship, nor the prompting of the devil to make
me let up, slow up, blow up, or give up 'til my marriage is healed.