No matter what always look at your son or daughter or children as if they were born for the first time even as they grow older.
Every time you see your child/ son/ daughter think of such things...
when you first held them in your arms as a precious gift from God
when they took their first step and how happy you were while tears flowed down your face
when they said their first words "da da" "ma ma" or whatever it may be
when they told you "Mommy I am afraid" or "Daddy I am scared" and you told them dont be I am with you
when you first brought them out into the world and said I will protect you always
when you saw them cry and you did all that you could to cheer them up
when you held them tightly to protect them from harm
when you let them sleep with you in your bed to feel comforted
when you sang them to sleep with your loving tender voice
when you told them I love you forever and ever always no matter how many mistakes you have made or what you have done
when you brought them to school for the first time and said a little prayer for them to grow and create beautiful friendships
when you showed them how to ride a bike and never gave up on them and told them to try try again
when you talked to them while they were in the belly so that they knew you cared for them even when in the womb
when you said I am going to be the best parent in the world so that everyone wished they had me as their mommy or daddy
when God chose you to be a loving parent
when God said I love you as my precious child
when God said I will never leave you
when God said go and show the world what love is all about
when God said YOU ARE MINE and therefore I LOVE YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE NOT WHAT YOU HAVE DONE BUT BECAUSE YOU ARE MY PRECIOUS PRECIOUS DEAR CHILD.
<3 :)