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Separated, Divorced, or loss of a spouse support net.

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Those Christians who are facing separation, divorce, or loss of a spouse need love and care from their brothers and sister in Christ during this time of crisis in there lives. If one part of the body is hurt we all are hurt.

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I wanted to put a comment here that I left for a young man who had just separated and was in real anguish. When I looked at his picture on his page and looked into his eyes, I saw the same pain there that I saw in my own eyes when I faced separation after 25 years of marriage. I hope to make this group a real source of support for those who are in this position that most of us never dreamed of being in, and then found our selves there anyway.
This is the post.
I do know the place where you are at right now, because I have been there. Without going through all the details of my experience I want you to know that because you have come to this net. You are not alone in your suffering anymore. I know how hard it is to allow others to help you when you have been so wounded. You do not need me or any one to fix this problem right now, all you need to know is that someone cares about you. I remember the day my Pastor came to my house, just set with me half a day, and cried with me. I kept listening to this song by Keri Jobe that helped me make it through my pain.

It didn’t turn out the way I thought it would after almost 4 years now.
Am I back in my marriage? No. The divorce will be final this week.

Is there life after separation, divorce or the loss of a spouse? Yes!
But you can’t deal with it alone. You need some one to help you find a way through the maze of grief, and sorrow that some one goes through with any loss. Stand no more alone and find some support for yourself that you need so desperately.

Know that I will, and others here will pray that God will lead you to those who will help. God can handle your anger and disappointment and your grief. He is a very present help in time of need.

Maybe you are reading this and your heart is broken, you are feeling lost, and have lost your hope.

I pray that you might just share your story here and allow God to minister to you though others who love the Lord and have a compassionate heart. I realize through my own experience that I needed the members of the Body of Christ to help me in this journey.
My motto has become: STAND NO MORE ALONE.

Discussion Forum

Living in fear and trying to do God's will

Started by Jay David Sims. Last reply by Jay David Sims Jul 10, 2013. 2 Replies 2 Likes

I am recently separated as well. I was a heavy drinker. In may, I put myself into a treatment center. I had reached a level of deep shame. I was verbally abusive and a very angry drunk. I often was…Continue

I'd be drowning by now if it wasn't for God picking me up and carrying me.

Started by James Saldana. Last reply by Ruel Z Chavez May 7, 2011. 4 Replies 1 Like

My wife said she wants a divorce. I know that i have failed to show her how much she has meant to me after 17 years of marriage a lot of the times. i know that i have not been the husband to her and…Continue

God Will... Bring you Thru.

Started by Gayla Mar 6, 2011. 0 Replies 1 Like

As someone who has gone thru many struggles in life, oftentimes longing for the end of a certain situation that I was experiencing at the moment, I can say of a surety that "God... will bring you…Continue

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Going through Divorced :-(

Started by Vicky Emperatriz Diaz. Last reply by Vicky Emperatriz Diaz Feb 9, 2011. 4 Replies 1 Like

My husband of 18 1/2 years walked out on me and my girls. It has been very painful to me as his wife but also as the mother of our children because I get to see the pain and rebellion they are going…Continue

Now what?

Started by Stephen Sadousky. Last reply by Soldier Feb 9, 2011. 1 Reply 0 Likes

I'll put this out there to see what is what.Not really sure what happens now,but ,I guess that sometimes things have to end so new beginnings can start.I find myself facing divorce,and have been…Continue

Been about 4 months since my wife filed for separation/divorce

Started by Leo. Last reply by Leo Oct 20, 2010. 3 Replies 0 Likes

We have had our rough times and had some good times. We have three of the biggest blessings God can betstow on us, three beautiful boys. We got married young but decided we'd tackle life together and…Continue

Need your prayers. I'm just so angry.

Started by Leo. Last reply by Soldier Oct 4, 2010. 4 Replies 0 Likes

Yesterday, I had to take my boys back to their moms and I won't get to see them for like 5 or 6 months. I am not an angry person but this has just done it to me. I am so angry at my wife for doing…Continue

Help when you experience loss

Started by Gayla. Last reply by marcoe corpuz Sep 28, 2010. 4 Replies 0 Likes

Loss can touch our lives at any time, and sometimes it can be devastating. We can be assured that God is right there with us, in whatever pain we are currently experiencing, helping us to cope with…Continue

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Newly Divorced

Started by Teresa. Last reply by Soldier Aug 23, 2010. 2 Replies 0 Likes

I'm newly divorced and it sucks. My husband wanted the divorce, said he wasnt happy, that I was mean to him and had a bad attitude. There were some other issues as well. We moved to Hawaii last…Continue

Dealing with loss and grief

Started by Pastor Bob B. Last reply by Pastor Bob B May 6, 2010. 16 Replies 0 Likes

To One in SorrowLet me come in where you are weeping, friend,And let me take your hand.I, who have known a sorrow such as yours, can understand.Let me come in--I would be very still beside you in…Continue

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Comment by Pastor Bob B on October 15, 2010 at 4:37am: Avril please know that we are all praying for you and that God is a very present help in time of need. He loves you in-spite of your failures in your marriage and will help you. Allow this whole situation to cause you to come to know the Lord and do not be like Adam and Eve who hid away from God. Just like God clothed them, He with cover you and help you to know that He is a loving and merciful God.
In the love of Jesus
Bob

Comment by Avril E Wiggs on October 14, 2010 at 8:23pm: I am in Severe pain over my Divorce and its hard for me at the moment to tell it all. Can you guys say a prayer for me, my exhusband and son. It it is really a terrible situation for all of us. sometimes i think i wont make it. I am the one at fault.I need a lot of spiritual and emotional healing and a new opurtunity to regain what ai lost

Comment by Leo on October 14, 2010 at 6:39am: Praying for you Soldier

Comment by Soldier on October 13, 2010 at 10:58pm: I haven't seen much activity in here lately. Most likely this will not be read till after the fact. I will be leaving for my "TRES DIAS" tomorrow. I've been praying and waiting 5 weeks for this. Now that it's here, its scary. No idea why. Please pray that God will break me to the very essence of my soul. Pray the man writing this on a Wednesday will NOT be the same man that returns home Sunday. Thank You.

Comment by sandra andrew on September 30, 2010 at 4:08pm: Lord we pray for marcia lord we pray your comfort peace and stregth lord will you be her selter and tower of stregth lord may you help her as she travels through this grief lord may she feel your awesome hand holding her close may she have the support she needs and know that you will help

Comment by marcoe corpuz on September 28, 2010 at 9:23am: thank you, leo

Comment by Leo on September 28, 2010 at 9:05am: Praying for you marcoe. You are NOT alone God is with us always till the very end of the age. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=74CNUExD4I8

Cry out to God. God hears the cries of his people.

Comment by marcoe corpuz on September 28, 2010 at 8:48am: im in great pain...confusion...difficulty...since my husband and I had a different set up until last month...HE died..unexpectedly...

I feel so weak...and helpless... i feel alone...

Comment by Leo on September 28, 2010 at 6:41am: I will keep you and your wife in prayer soldier. I've been praying very hard for my wife as well to turn to God and feel she has a bit but I think it is mostly because she wants to look good for her family. Head knowledge vs Heart knowledge you know. Big Difference. God is in control. We must continue to trust in God.

Comment by Teresa on September 2, 2010 at 5:51am: To SisterKellee,
Sorry to hear that your husband abandoned you and your family. Have you contacted a lawyer? You should still be able to get a divorce even if he can't be found. Check with a lawyer in your state and they can advise you how to do this.

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