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Separated, Divorced, or loss of a spouse support net.

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Those Christians who are facing separation, divorce, or loss of a spouse need love and care from their brothers and sister in Christ during this time of crisis in there lives. If one part of the body is hurt we all are hurt.

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I wanted to put a comment here that I left for a young man who had just separated and was in real anguish. When I looked at his picture on his page and looked into his eyes, I saw the same pain there that I saw in my own eyes when I faced separation after 25 years of marriage. I hope to make this group a real source of support for those who are in this position that most of us never dreamed of being in, and then found our selves there anyway.
This is the post.
I do know the place where you are at right now, because I have been there. Without going through all the details of my experience I want you to know that because you have come to this net. You are not alone in your suffering anymore. I know how hard it is to allow others to help you when you have been so wounded. You do not need me or any one to fix this problem right now, all you need to know is that someone cares about you. I remember the day my Pastor came to my house, just set with me half a day, and cried with me. I kept listening to this song by Keri Jobe that helped me make it through my pain.

It didn’t turn out the way I thought it would after almost 4 years now.
Am I back in my marriage? No. The divorce will be final this week.

Is there life after separation, divorce or the loss of a spouse? Yes!
But you can’t deal with it alone. You need some one to help you find a way through the maze of grief, and sorrow that some one goes through with any loss. Stand no more alone and find some support for yourself that you need so desperately.

Know that I will, and others here will pray that God will lead you to those who will help. God can handle your anger and disappointment and your grief. He is a very present help in time of need.

Maybe you are reading this and your heart is broken, you are feeling lost, and have lost your hope.

I pray that you might just share your story here and allow God to minister to you though others who love the Lord and have a compassionate heart. I realize through my own experience that I needed the members of the Body of Christ to help me in this journey.
My motto has become: STAND NO MORE ALONE.

Discussion Forum

Living in fear and trying to do God's will

Started by Jay David Sims. Last reply by Jay David Sims Jul 10, 2013. 2 Replies 2 Likes

I am recently separated as well. I was a heavy drinker. In may, I put myself into a treatment center. I had reached a level of deep shame. I was verbally abusive and a very angry drunk. I often was…Continue

I'd be drowning by now if it wasn't for God picking me up and carrying me.

Started by James Saldana. Last reply by Ruel Z Chavez May 7, 2011. 4 Replies 1 Like

My wife said she wants a divorce. I know that i have failed to show her how much she has meant to me after 17 years of marriage a lot of the times. i know that i have not been the husband to her and…Continue

God Will... Bring you Thru.

Started by Gayla Mar 6, 2011. 0 Replies 1 Like

As someone who has gone thru many struggles in life, oftentimes longing for the end of a certain situation that I was experiencing at the moment, I can say of a surety that "God... will bring you…Continue

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Going through Divorced :-(

Started by Vicky Emperatriz Diaz. Last reply by Vicky Emperatriz Diaz Feb 9, 2011. 4 Replies 1 Like

My husband of 18 1/2 years walked out on me and my girls. It has been very painful to me as his wife but also as the mother of our children because I get to see the pain and rebellion they are going…Continue

Now what?

Started by Stephen Sadousky. Last reply by Soldier Feb 9, 2011. 1 Reply 0 Likes

I'll put this out there to see what is what.Not really sure what happens now,but ,I guess that sometimes things have to end so new beginnings can start.I find myself facing divorce,and have been…Continue

Been about 4 months since my wife filed for separation/divorce

Started by Leo. Last reply by Leo Oct 20, 2010. 3 Replies 0 Likes

We have had our rough times and had some good times. We have three of the biggest blessings God can betstow on us, three beautiful boys. We got married young but decided we'd tackle life together and…Continue

Need your prayers. I'm just so angry.

Started by Leo. Last reply by Soldier Oct 4, 2010. 4 Replies 0 Likes

Yesterday, I had to take my boys back to their moms and I won't get to see them for like 5 or 6 months. I am not an angry person but this has just done it to me. I am so angry at my wife for doing…Continue

Help when you experience loss

Started by Gayla. Last reply by marcoe corpuz Sep 28, 2010. 4 Replies 0 Likes

Loss can touch our lives at any time, and sometimes it can be devastating. We can be assured that God is right there with us, in whatever pain we are currently experiencing, helping us to cope with…Continue

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Newly Divorced

Started by Teresa. Last reply by Soldier Aug 23, 2010. 2 Replies 0 Likes

I'm newly divorced and it sucks. My husband wanted the divorce, said he wasnt happy, that I was mean to him and had a bad attitude. There were some other issues as well. We moved to Hawaii last…Continue

Dealing with loss and grief

Started by Pastor Bob B. Last reply by Pastor Bob B May 6, 2010. 16 Replies 0 Likes

To One in SorrowLet me come in where you are weeping, friend,And let me take your hand.I, who have known a sorrow such as yours, can understand.Let me come in--I would be very still beside you in…Continue

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Comment by Pastor Bob B on April 8, 2008 at 5:46am: Pastor Yoel I placed the scripture you left in the net healing and prayer room. Bob

Comment by Yoel charan on April 7, 2008 at 10:13pm: Jesus Never Leaves
1. When you are alone , He is with you. Matthew 28: 20
2. When you are depress, He will encourage you. John 14:1
3. When you have heavy burden, He will lighten your burden.
matthew 11:28--30.
4. When you are sad , Hewill give you peace.Matthew 8:7.
Phil. 4:7
5. When you are struggling, He will make the way. 1Cor. 10:13.
6. when you are afraid, He will say fear not. Matthew 14:27
7. when you are weak, He will give you strenght. Phil.4:13.
So rejoice in the Lord. Rev. yoel charan

Comment by Yoel charan on April 7, 2008 at 9:57pm: Dear friends , I am here to help them spiritualy who are separated. Please write your problem i will solve your problem through word of God and through prayer.

Comment by Pastor Bob B on April 4, 2008 at 3:03am: Sometimes the pain of separation or going through a divorce or losing a spouse can go on for a long time. I found this song called ONE TOUCH that expresses ongoing pain in a life and the story of the women who had the issue of blood for 12 years. Touch the hem of His Garment today by faithand may you find healing in Jesus Name

Comment by Ramona on April 3, 2008 at 7:40am: hi, i am ramona and if i can offer support to anyone please let me know.

Comment by cara on April 2, 2008 at 9:07am: hi im cara ive just joined the group i hope i can be of help to anyone day or night ill pray,give encouragement and listen ive been thru it all! God bless!

Comment by brateng on March 31, 2008 at 7:52am: Just joined the group but (unluckily) it is my time to go home for the day. I look forward to learn a lot and to help god in restructuring broken promises in line with Bro Bob's insight. love you all

Comment by Pastor Bob B on March 30, 2008 at 1:12pm

Comment by Pastor Bob B on March 29, 2008 at 10:22am: Nienie,a young man on the net the other day said every time he went to church he felt like they were afraid to catch the divorce bug from him. It is so hard for Christians to deal with this issue. I thank God that my church isn't like that even if there might be a few. It is a real issue that affect all of us. I am glad. you are here

Comment by Nienie on March 29, 2008 at 8:32am: WOnderful initiative Bob, so many out there struggling with this issue! (me included). As someone who went through a divorce and is now separated, there is sometime sos much questions in your heart and to learn form others is always an inspiration.God bless

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