Separated, Divorced, or loss of a spouse support net.

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Comment by Paula on May 29, 2008 at 10:05am

I seperated from my husband of 13 years in 2002 and our divorce was final in 2005. Someone once told me that some divorces can be so easy, not so sure I agree with this...Divorces destroy, however you can put yourself back together and move on with time and healing from God and support from others who have gone through the struggles of going through a divorce and raising children that are caught in the middle of a divorce. God allows us to experience things to be an encourager to others, not saying that if you don't go through something you can't encourage, however when there are others who relate to you it's so much easier. My heart breaks for some of the stories I have read and God does heal...Healing is not always instant........God is the bandaid of all our hurts and hangups!!!! Blessings!!!!!

Comment by Pastor Bob B on May 8, 2008 at 12:16pm

Gloria, your story is so heart breaking and now that you have shared it here you will have others who will help share your burden. Gloria I believe God has led you to AllaboutGod and to this support group. Every one of us has made mistakes and no one here will judge you. The first step for any one is to find help from The Lord. I do not know if you have been born again yet or not. If you haven’t you might take a look at the group; Building a Sure Foundation for Christian Growth. We want to be of help any way we can. We have some wonderful Pastors also that will help you too. God told me to stand no more alone in my battles a couple of years ago and because I obeyed Him it has made all the difference for me.

Comment by Gloria on May 2, 2008 at 4:48am

My spouse and I have actually been divorced since 1989 but the same week our divorce was final, we moved back in together, never re-married and it was a long road of lies, adultery, heartbreak and incarceration. There were good times but few and far inbetween. Now 3 kids, and 23 yrs later I decided to walk away, I coulnd't take it anymore. Before I was even packed good he had started an affair with a coworker (who I later found out was the owner of the company's sister) and just let me walk. Did nothing to try to keep me or fight for me (no willingness to change him self or change the situations that were taking place) I was having a really hard time with that. There's been alot that happened in the last few months, phone calls and visits and blow-ups. He's told me he still loves me and always will and at one point thought I thought he was doing better and maybe things would work out, yet he continued his other realtionship as well. It's been 6 months and it's a little easier now but the thoughts of everything about this whole situation consume me on a daily basis. I so desire release from this situation and peace and joy so badly. I am desperately trying to move forward. Please pray for me.

Comment by Venkah on April 27, 2008 at 5:07pm

I am still married... by law... but really my husband and I live under the same roof but carry on completely seperate lives. We are like room mates who feel nothing for eachother.

Comment by Nienie on April 21, 2008 at 8:23am

Angel
We will pray for you. Pray that God will restore your hurt and your aching heart. HE understands every hurt and HE will comfort you. Please feed yourself with the Word and I want to encourage you rather have friends who lifts you up than those who keep you from the Lord, but always pray for them for they need the LOrd and we must pray for them. First get yourself healed spiritually and mentally after a hurtful relationship!
PRaying for you!

Comment by African Angel on April 21, 2008 at 5:19am

Please pray for me, I was dating a man who was saved but walked away from God as he lost his son almost 2 years ago in a tracic accident. I believed that God has placed me in his life to help him but he didn't treat me very well and started to drink & became out of control. I know in my heart that this is not what God would want for His daughter so I ended the relationship 2 weeks ago but the pain in my heart is just not leaving me. Please pray for healing for me in this area.

God Bless.

Angel

Comment by cara on April 15, 2008 at 10:38am

Bob, my partner spoke with his ex and praise the lord she has no objections, we are both delighted with this. So keep us in prayer that Gary will be open to the studies and doesn't get bored as he is only ten.On sunday past he played football with the other kids and then had a quiz about the Israelites and really enjoyed himself and he can't wait to come back next week. Isn't that brilliant, God answers prayers, amen.

Comment by Pastor Bob B on April 14, 2008 at 3:03pm

Cara, this is a difficult situation that a lot of people have to deal with. The child’s father and the child’s mother need to decide how to deal with if his son attends Church with you when he comes to your home. It seems that the child’s mother would want the him to do things with his father even if you and she are not on good terms.

Comment by george on April 10, 2008 at 12:15pm

Bro Bob you are really a big blessing to a lot of people suffering from pain of separations, divorce and even to those people who are lossing a spouse, through this site. May you continue to be a source of encouragement and light to many people. I do hope i can also be of help in this site to many people. God bless you and more power.

his servant,
Ptr. george Manalang

Comment by cara on April 9, 2008 at 12:58am

Hi I need a wee bit of help with a situation,my partner and i have found a great spirit filled church and have started going we'd love to take his son along with us but we only have him every 2 weekends and his mother mighten like it as she hates me! we want him to know God (hes ten yrs old) and have a life with Him in it so how do we do this?

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